More Than a Moment: What Mother’s Day Reminded Me (And Why It’s Just the Beginning)

 

Mother’s Day is a cherished pause in the year, a day filled with kind words, gifts, and acknowledgement of the hard work of being a mother. It can also be quite a difficult time for those, such as myself, who have suffered loss in relation to the day. However the day of celebration was spent, as quickly as it comes, it goes. The cards are put away, the balloons deflate, and life picks up right where it left off. And as I sat reflecting the day after, I realized something: while Mother’s Day was a blessing, it also stirred something deeper in me.

Honest Reflections from Mother’s Day

This year brought a mix of emotions and introspection. I always find myself trying to balance processing my grief but not wanting it overtake my present day and time with my family. I tend to allow myself to feel the emotions and weight of it first, so by the actual day I can be present in a more thoughtful way and that has allowed me to cope pretty well. It also never seems to amaze me how God uses people to comfort me that I never expect and don't even think they actually the impact of  their unexpected presence. So somehow every year I get to experience great love during a time that can be quite difficult and I'm extremely thankful. Now that the day has passed, I can focus on moving forward and how I want to spend the rest of the year. The goal is to always care for myself in a way that nurtures my faith and allows me to be the best version of myself so I can show up best for who and what I care about most. So now I have to be intentional so this goal can be realized.

Many of us pour out constantly. We mother, manage, mentor, and mend. And sometimes, we forget to ask how we are doing in all of it.

What It Brought to Light

Mother’s Day can be a mirror. It shows the beauty of our roles, but it can also reveal the imbalance. It reminded me how easy it is to keep giving without pausing to receive, not just gifts, but rest, joy, reflection, and care.

It made me wonder: What if we didn’t wait for a holiday to feel seen? What if we made space to honor ourselves regularly?

What Happens After the Flowers Fade?

Here’s the truth: you are still worthy of rest, recognition, and joy on a random Tuesday.

Your identity as a mother, wife, and woman goes far beyond a single celebration. It deserves rhythm. Continuity. Respect.

So here’s a gentle challenge: let Mother’s Day be a beginning, not just a break. Let it launch you into a season of intention where you:

• Create small routines to check in with yourself.

• Prioritize quiet time, prayer, or journaling.

• Say yes to things that fill you, and no to what drains you.

• Plan rest like you plan responsibilities.

Moving Forward with Intention

If you’re ready to keep that feeling of being seen and valued going, start small. Maybe it’s with a new morning rhythm. Maybe it’s creating a plan to carve out space for your own growth. Maybe it’s simply choosing to treat yourself with the same tenderness you give everyone else.

You don’t have to hustle to earn rest. You don’t need permission to pause.

You just have to decide that you matter, too.

Still Worth Celebrating

The flowers may wilt, but your value doesn’t. Let Mother’s Day be more than a moment. Let it be a spark, a reminder that your care, your dreams, and your well-being deserve attention every day.

You're still worth celebrating today, tomorrow, always.